Recently I was given an opportunity to write a letter of encouragement to women entering into church leadership. It is meant to be a letter to women who may feel or have felt discouraged due to being told by men that women do not belong in leadership areas of the church. It is also a letter to any men who feel the church is not a place for women. In the end whoever reads this, we may not agree, but I was asked to post my thoughts to my blog and I proudly do so. I enjoy having these conversations and hope that we continue to do so until the need is no longer. Anyways here was my short letter:
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I would like to take this time to express to you my passion for empowering and encouraging women in positions of leadership within and outside of the church. However, the (big C) church seems to be a difficult place for women to gain respect, whereas many organizations and companies outside of the ministry world have adopted their support of women. Many even to the point where it is not even considered a conversation because it is not tolerable to think otherwise. However, this is still an issue we need to address.
I read this recently for my Theology class where Justo Gonzalez said that it is a problem that " the North American male theology is taken to be basic, normative, universal theology, to which women, and other minorities may add their footnotes." For entirely too long churches have been dominated by white men. Most of church doctrines were and are established by white men as well. It's not a wonder why many churches do not want to adjust and change. Whether it's based out of fear because of the "feminist agenda" or because men are threatened that they might be "wrong", either way it's incredibly unjust for women to not have a place in the church outside of the three basic women endorsed roles: Missionaries, Sunday School teachers, or Choir directors. Even more so than women having a place in the church is the the tragedy that many women do not even have a VOICE. Women can no longer be silenced by these men (and other women who have been indoctrinated in a the system where men have the sole voice).
This problem in the church will remain a problem until we can stop having the conversation. This will only happen when women have gained respect and empowerment based off their ability and gifting and not because of their gender.
I would encourage any woman to stay in the fight if they encounter one. Do not let anyone or any man win in silencing your voice. You have a strong voice. Your voice came from the our Creator God and there is a reason God gave you your voice: You need to use it. For too long women with great talent and gifts have been marginalized and held back from doing what God created them to do. I will fight for you for as long as I live. I will be a resource, a listening ear, or a positive voice for you or any woman if they need it.
Please stay strong and confident and my hope is that someday we will not have to worry about this even being a thought. But until that day comes, we are relying on the women and men who are willing to say something and work together toward true equality.
You deserve it. God created you to be a leader. God does not make mistakes in my opinion. Follow through with what you know God has gifted you in. Do not let anyone else tell you differently.
You deserve it. God created you to be a leader. God does not make mistakes in my opinion. Follow through with what you know God has gifted you in. Do not let anyone else tell you differently.
Thank you Mr. G
ReplyDeleteA good reminder to stay in the fight.
Katie
So the obvious question is what are your thoughts on how the Bible addresses this issue? Paul makes it pretty clear in a couple of places about the woman's role in the church, how are we to react to those passages?
ReplyDeleteSorry Mauler, I clearly need to update my notification settings. With this I would think back to understanding who the author who wrote this was, who the author was writing to, when the author wrote it and what is the general cultural context.
DeletePaul wrote this to Timothy, Ephesus, Corinth and I'm sure others that I'm forgetting right now. The studies I've done around these passages suggest that women couldn't be in roles of leadership in the church. Mostly because they didn't have any rights then. Women were basically second class citizens. Look at the OT - you were sold from your father to a man whether you liked it or not, if you got divorced, usually the man leaving the woman, she was useless now. She would be considered unclean. Only virgins were valued at the time. Additionally, women weren't allowed to be trained in the material and the Law. Only men were and not all men. Paul is saying if you are trained in the materials of the Law and scriptures, then you should be teaching in the church.
My big thing to anyone is not to just look at these passages and take them literally as you read them. If you did that with these letters from Paul then you have to do it with Jesus too. I don't know many people gauging their eyes out, selling everything they have and giving it to the poor. Paul said to only get married unless you burn with passion...but according to who's standards does one measure burning with passion? Paul also says that women should where head coverings in church...rarely do women do that. Paul says all scripture is God - Breathed...he is talking about the Torah Gen - Deuteronomy and the books of the Prophets, NOT the Gospels that refer to Jesus. The Gospels were actually written after Paul's letters. I know I rambled but I hope that helps a bit in understanding why we can't just take what the Bible says and believe it word for word without doing a little bit of interpreting on the meaning of a specific passage.
Andy, I love you took the time and courage to write such a letter. To be frank, I haven't thought much about women in leadership until I met you and Sara. I don't have much to say other than you guys have completely opened my mind to it and for that, I'm thankful.
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